Do I Have To?

Do I have to? How often were those words uttered in childhood and still they go through my head today? There were a few things I “have to” this week – dreaded paperwork and menu planning. Paperwork – need I say more? Never my favourite occupation – it’s not that I can’t, it’s more that I just don’t like to… Know what I mean?

In fact I dislike it so much that I even got around to doing the second task, the menu planning. It’s something that we have been thinking about for awhile now. The benefits are many – your shopping list makes more sense (hopefully) and you will (hopefully) have the makings of some interesting meals at the end of the shopping trip. Most likely you will also save money at the grocery shops and be less confused, more focused as you wander from aisle to aisle. Another benefit is that you don’t end up looking in the presses (cupboards) in hungry desperation wondering “what’s for dinner?”

How did I solve this menu planning dilema – by reading lost of blogs of course! Aren’t I a good little procrastinator? I wandered over to Small Notebook for a look, knowing that organising skills abound there and guess what was going on over there? You got it- menu planning troubles! So I am not the only one pondering this wonder of old-fashionedness.

I had a good read and then followed the yellow brick hyper-road over to Simple Mom’s blog for a read and wow – she has this whole thing nailed down! Many of the commentators also had good ideas so now here I was armed with solid plans.

I had recently gone through a few magazines, preparing for the trip to the recycling centre and I had torn out quite a few good recipes that I thought would suit us and put them into a folder. I also have a gmail calendar on the go so I went through the recipes and slotted them into various days on the calendar, adding the ingredients needed to the event description so that I don’t have to go through the recipes to get a shopping list organised.

I really like the fact that I can so easily repeat each recipe at odd intervals – every five weeks or every seven weeks so that our eating pattern does not become too repetitive. As I was entering the information I was also writing put a shopping list so it all seemed so easy all of a sudden.

Isn’t that often the way with things that we have been putting off for ages, dreading to do or simply feeling “do I have to?” When we actually get down to it the task does not seem so bad…

Now for that paperwork…


Simple living and sustainable living are not necessarily the same thing, although the terms may seem to be interchangeable for some people. That might sound like a strange opinion (hey, it’s only one of many) but the difference lies in what sustainable means, or indeed what it means to you or to me. It is a word which has suffered great abuse lately, every marketing Tom, Dick and Harriet has (ab)used the word to sell one thing or another – green-washing.

What does it mean to me? I find it hard to define clearly and succinctly but it has to do with living and using earth’s resources in a manner which does not have a negative impact on future generations or the earth herself. Ok, that was my first go and already I can see that I need to edit it to – striving to live and use resources in a manner which does not have a negative impact on future generations or the earth herself.

I have read quite a few blogs where the two terms are loosely used to mean the same thing, where there is an assumption that people in the “simple living” community (to coin an Americanism) are living sustainably. Some of them probably are but many people who are practising simple living are doing so primarily in order to reduce debt. There is absolutely nothing wrong in that, debt avoidance and debt reduction are very powerful ways to take responsibility for your life.

However it means that these people are making solely financial choices and thinking only in terms of money and how to reduce their living expenses. If this results in their buying fewer toxic chemicals to clean their houses or growing their own veg then that is a great result but the benefit is purely incidental.

Hopefully, for many of these people there will be a change of mind set as they realise that the benefits are not just financial and so begin to look at their life choices (and buying choices) not just in terms of money but in terms of the environmental impact and the impact on their children learning to be more thoughtful consumers.

Taking a little more time to think carefully about buying a product can be very empowering. There are often many things to consider. Where was it produced? How well are the workers paid? Is there a Fair Trade product available? If so can I encourage my local store to stock it instead? Are there lots of toxic chemicals in this product or were nasty things used in it’s production? Do I need it or just want it?

Not buying as much “stuff” does reduce negative impact on the environment in many ways, check out The Story of Stuff.

What does sustainable living mean for you? I’d would love to hear what you think…